That is the provocative title of a blog post I ran across today. I wanted to share it with all of you. The author is fired up about the standard advice Christian spouses give each other about sex:
“it’s the same thing I’ve seen over and over in the evangelical christian community. It goes something like this…
“You need to be having more sex”
“It’s your duty to make sure your sex life is spontaneous, passionate, and fun.”
“If you’re having problems in your marriage, it could be your sex life is off. Your spouse’s sexual frustration could be causing friction. Try having more sex to see if that fixes the issue.”
“You should have sex everyday for X number of days.” (The “X” varies, from 30 to a whole year…I’m not even kidding.)
If you’re interested to hear her take on this, read the whole post here.